从零开始的法律 BDSM 社区安全指南
探索信任与责任的核心
西檬之家 BPMN 入门：什么是字母圈的 S 倾向？
在小圈和大圈都有经验的人，BDSM 社区的新人通常从S倾向实践开始，这是通往更复杂互动的基石。字母圈的 S 倾向，通常指一个更关注施虐（S/M 或 DS 关系）的新人导向，它不仅定义了行为，还规定了新人的安全操作要求。理解 SSC 和安全协议可以说是掌握 S 关系的前提。
核心术语解析：S 在 BDSM 中意味着什么
S/M：施虐/受虐关系
You are in charge. You make the decisions. You set the limits and boundaries for everyone. You are Dom but you are not forced to actually be the Mistress. You can be a dom in female穿着。
Your control in the relationship gives you the right and the absolute freedom to ask for anything from your sub. Yes, anything, as long as it isn’t illegal or against your personal boundaries. In sleeping together, giving your sub permission to ejaculate, or being receptive to his<帮手>.
That is a dom. In a relationship otherwise, the other person does nothing but服从. On the most basic level, dom/sub relationships are sexual relationships that are designed to satisfy the dominant in the relationship. BDSM is just the overall umbrella术语(原文不知哪里来的)。